Salter Path

Team Rutledge packed the van with six months worth of supplies and the kitchen sink this past weekend for a two-day trek to the unique village of Salter Path, North Carolina. Salter Path is home to our neighbor Chad Guthrie's family and is where Chad grew up. With the Guthries as the navigators of our caravan, we ventured with dogs and babies down east to the Bogue Banks to celebrate birthdays and get away for some much needed R&R.

Douglas and Kathy, Chad's parents, have an incredible spot at the beach where they have lived for over 30 years. Their lot is over an acre in size and is dotted with knotty live oak trees and lush vegetation. They welcomed us by opening up their home, smoking a pig, and giving us some great history on how the area was settled. We also got some great scoop on Chad with some quality growing-up stories that Amy, Claudia and I will no doubt use against him in the future.

The weekend was a great getaway spent with great folks. We hope to get back down for a visit in the future.


Claudia & Chad enjoy a cool Saturday morning.



The crew relaxes on the front porch -- (seated clockwise) Kathy, Douglas (with boys), Claudia (with McKay), and (standing) Amy



Chef Douglas masters the cooker and smokes a pig for the upcoming birthday festivities.



Pied Piper Claudia leads the kids around the yard -- Owen, Gus, and Lucy in the wagon as Max supervises.



Gus pleads to be let outside with the dogs with his best pig-nose face.



Gus sports the shades for his first trip into the ocean. It was all good until he got his first mouthful of saltwater.



Owen practices his sand crab imitation.



Claudia and Gus chill out and ponder why they don't go to the beach more often.



The Rutledges pose for a family shot at the beach.



After chasing dogs and birds, running down the beach, and making sure everyone was in their right spot, Tucker crashes in the driveway for a well-deserved nap.

Hurricanes

The NHL returned this season after a year-long absence due to millionaire professional athletes and billionaire owners squabbling over money. Greedy aspects of sports aside, hockey has really returned with a bang this year. The league put a salary cap in place which levels the playing field for smaller market teams like Carolina. The league also changed the rules to cut out on the clutching and grabbing that had really slowed the game down in the years leading up to the lockout. The result was a fantastic product on the ice as the game is faster, scoring is up, and small market teams like Carolina, Buffalo and Edmonton are among the final four teams remaining in the playoffs.

Amy and I have definitely regained the hockey fever that captivated this area in 2002 when the Canes made an improbable run to the Stanley Cup finals. People drive around town with Hurricanes flags hanging off their cars. Sports radio is buzzing with hockey talk. Hockey in North Carolina has actually created an interesting dynamic in this area. The Triangle is a college sports mecca, especially with basketball. Allegiances run deep between the three schools that are separated by 20 miles -- North Carolina, NC State, and Duke. Yet hockey is the one thing that unites these fans. The college rivalries subside as people of all stripes throw on their Canes jerseys and head over to the RBC Center to tailgate before the games. It really is an exciting thing to be a part of as a fan.

Since we've had the boys Amy and I have not made it to many Canes games. In the pre-monster years we were part of a group that split season tickets so we got to see them a lot. These days we mostly watch the games on TV or listen to them on the radio. So Friday when they opened up practice before the conference finals with Buffalo, I ventured over to the RBC at lunchtime to catch a glimpse of the team. The Canes lost 3-2 on Saturday, but they won 4-3 last night to even the series. The series returns to Raleigh on Sunday, and I may try to scalp a ticket to catch that one.

Lastly, one thing they do on the big screen at Canes games when Carolina scores is show Ric Flair -- yes, the Nature Boy -- in a Canes jersey shouting, "That's another Carolina Hurricanes goal! Woooooooo!!!" The crowd goes nuts and screams along "Woooo! Wooowoooo!" I am working on the Ric Flair cheer with the boys. When we get that down you can bet that it will be posted here. ;-) For now, you can see the Nature Boy's version.

The RBC Center

The Canes shootaround. Being the goalie just getting peppered with slapshots has got to be a fun job -- pays well though.



Fan favorite Mike Commodore -- sans bathrobe -- in the back with his mop of red hair covered by his helmet. Fans show up to the games in red wigs and bathrobes (Commodore wears a Canes bathrobe postgame and often does interviews in it.)


21-year old Eric Stahl is the top goal scorer for the team and the most recognizable star.



Team captain Rod Brind'Amour has been around for a long time. His gritty play and leadership have carried the team deep into the playoffs.

Back to the Bluegrass

This is coming a few weeks late but what a great time the boys and I had visiting family in Paducah, Clarksville and Franklin, TN. We enjoyed playing on the playground, purple shirt day, watching monkeys at the Rain Forest Cafe, attending Derby Day at the football field, watching soccer practice with Granddaddy coaching, eating BBQ and birthday cake, fajitas in Franklin for Cinco de Mayo, parading through the neighborhood with Mason playing guitar, sitting on the back porch as Gus discovered leaves... I could go on and on.

As a side note, when we left KY last Sept my mom ended up with a ruptured disc in her back and my sister had the same thing in her neck after this visit. I feel a need to establish a playtime limit next visit so nobody gets hurt. Ha! Thanks for the hospitality while we were there.







Uncle Ken shows the boys the art of digging in a birthday cake.






Granddaddy gets a workout on the slide.





The boys show Uncle Scott how to check the oil in the car.




Granny and Aunt Kay are impressed by the amount of food these boys can eat.




Gus has a 'ball' with Aunt Ashley.

Milk toss

Feeding time is much more fun when games are involved, especially games that only Owen & Gus understand. For instance, this game involves chucking the sippie cup without dropping it on the ground. Gus 1, Owen 0 after round one.

Lions, & tigers & bears...oh my

It has been ten days since our last post -- way too long. So much has been going on the past two weeks. I was out in Las Vegas for a week for training with my job. Amy went back to Kentucky with the boys to spend some time with the family in Paducah. When we got back to North Carolina, I was swamped with work again, and Amy was adjusting to having the boys on her own again. So we have both been going 100mph lately.

On Friday we made a conscious effort to get away. I took a vacation day from work, and Amy and I loaded the boys up to make our first trip to the North Carolina Zoo over in Asheboro. The NC Zoo is a pretty interesting place. Asheboro is a small town right in the heart of central North Carolina, equidistant from Raleigh, Charlotte & Greensboro -- the three largest cities in the state. It is a natural habitat zoo so we got to see many, many animals as close to their natural setting as possible. The boys got their first glimpses of polar bears, sea lions, a seal, kangaroos, box turtles, giraffes, an ostrich, pink flamingos, bears -- you name it. It was a gorgeous day to get away and well worth the trip. Here are some shots from the zoo trek. Cheers!




The polar bear was quite entertained with the trash can and plastic toys at his disposal. This bear was rescued from a circus in Mexico. While he doesn't have as much freedom as he would in the North Pole, he is pampered a lot more than in his last life as a circus attraction.

The kangaroos were all about vegging out and sunning themselves, mate!



Yes, apparently a bear does it in the woods and in the water, too.



Amy & the boys strike a pose in front of giraffes and an ostrich.



Gus & Owen are intrigued by a wild goose that propositioned them for food.

Owen crawls

I'm out in Las Vegas this week. Amy and the boys are in KY visiting Nana & Granddaddy. Amy sent me this video today of Owen. He has ditched the army crawl (on the carpet at least) for the full blown crawl on all fours.

Name that Caption

Who knew a simple colander could bring so much amusement into our house?

Refrigerator repairman

"For the love of God do I have to get my own diapers around this house? Sheesh!"


In actuality Gus discovered he could open and close the dresser drawer tonight. Owen was so excited at his brother's discovery that he pulled himself up to Gus at the expense of Gus's diaper.

Reminds you of the SNL skit with Dan Ackroyd coming to fix the refrigerator with some sizable crack showing. Cheers!

To Do Lists

These past two days have comprised one of the busiest weekends Amy & I have had since becoming parents. We are heading out of town next weekend and had to cram like college students in order to get things done before we leave. Like classic ISFJ's, we sat down on Friday and made our list of things to do. While we didn't get to eveything on the list, we did get a lot accomplished.

Saturday

• Devised a plan at 5:00am for neighbors' barking dog to sleep with the fishes
• Got the car serviced
• Boosted Target stock price by 10% with the Rutledge bi-weekly shopping spree
• Racing an impending thunderstorm, got three inches of pollen washed off the car and the yard mowed
• Helped our buddy Mike transport a chair to Chapel Hill
• Gave the boys their first snare drum solo
• Took the boys out to eat for the second successful time
• Watched our Hurricanes get clubbed by the Canadiens 6-1
• Bathed the monsters
• Walked Tucker & his pals Digby & MacKay before the dog sleepover at our house
• Sank into the couch & chair fast asleep

Sunday

• Amy walked the boys to church while I went early to prepare for the drum/piano duet that will no doubt be reviewed in your local paper tomorrow
• Fed the boys -- Owen yakked -- bath #2
• Checked on the pups next door -- ear rubbing breaks good for them and us
• Amy's grocery store run with the boys
• Derek vs. the bathroom tile floor (I'm ripping out the tile floor so our neighbor Viktor can put in a new floor for us while we're gone next week). Hour 1 begins...
• Dust & flying tiles 1, Derek 0 -- trip to Ace Hardware for goggles and face masks
• Ventured back to church for a welcome back ceremony for our pastor Joanne (Joanne 1, breast cancer 0 -- woohooo!)
• Clean up boys, bedtime stories, & put the boys down
• Tucker and his daily camina
• Pop open the bottle of pinot grigio on a gorgeous spring evening, post to the blog
• Exhale

We'll get to the rest of the list later. Have a good week -- cheers!

One Notch on the Belt

Year One has come and gone since the boys were born. Some days it seems like just yesterday that we were headed to the hospital at nearly thirty-three weeks, convinced of a false alarm. And other days April 15, 2005 seems like a long time ago. So many new changes have taken place since then that it seems like a longer time than it truly has been.

Parenthood is such a unique journey. You can't prepare for it. Amy & I quickly realized that we had a lot to learn about raising two little boys. But we also learned that in so many situations there isn't a right or wrong way -- just whatever it takes to get through it.

The first night we brought the boys home we were not putting their diapers on tight enough, and we had to change them and their crib sheets half a dozen times before morning. Buying a vehicle with two screaming boys -- one exploding with poop -- holed up in a tiny financing office was a memorable experience. Starting an argument at 3:00am with your wife because there is not a pacifier to be found or chucking a tennis shoe at your husband because you are both so tired you can't see straight. There were certainly moments that test a parent's will.

But all of those are forgotten in an instant when little Owen goes into a gut-wrenching laughing fit as you kiss his belly. Or when Gus gets so excited standing up in his crib for the first time. Or when the two boys explode in laughter as they experience a bubble bath for the first time.

The little monsters are our pride and joy. We can't wait for what Year Two will bring us.

Cheers!

Recovery

As Derek mentioned, we all had a great time seeing the grandparents last weekend and celebrating some early birthdays. The boys soaked in so much attention they've been recovering the last few days.



Relaxing on the hammock


Strolling incognito


Sleeping through breakfast

A grand birthday weekend

The grandparents journeyed to North Cackalackee last weekend to celebrate Owen & Gus's first birthday. The weekend started off a little rough as Owen came down with a nasty fever and cold. But he recuperated by the end of the weekend and in time to enjoy a little cake. The boys took in all the attention they could muster. Amy & I enjoyed having eight willing helping hands with the boys (and we even got to have dinner out with our neighbors Chad & Claudia one night -- a rarity indeed!). We capped off the weekend with a low-key birthday party complete with eastern NC barbecue and a homemade birthday cake on Saturday and the boys being dedicated at church on Sunday. A grand time was had by all.


Ma the cakemaker prepares her puppy dog masterpiece.

The boys' first birthday cake.




The mad hatter prepares for the celebration.

Owen 1, cake 0.

"Over here please -- this one is out of that tasty icing on top. Chop, chop."




Present time complete with outfits, swimming trunks, books, baseball cards & birthday cards to chew on.



Owen is captivated by Granddaddy's reading of the fruit book.



Gus takes in lessons on how to watch the Masters from his two grandfathers. It's an art form, young man -- you'll learn.




Owen was quite at home strolling with his Nana to help him forget his crummy fever.




Never one to be left out, Tucker inserts himself into reading time with some helpful licks.



Gus shows GJ and Pappy the art of table surfing.

Touchdown

We celebrate small milestones these days. Owen learned to clap his hands this week. Gus stood up in his crib for the first time yesterday. Today, Gus displayed his future love of vegging out in front of the TV and watching football.

Spring scenes

Ants have invaded the casa de Rutledge this past week. With the extremely mild winter we had, the ants have been out in full force this spring. We broke out the cinnamon, the Combat traps, and ultimately the Raid. Rutledges 1, Ants 0.





It was nice knowing you little fellow.




Outdoors the colors have returned...




...and a lizard takes in a window sill.

Simple toys

Pans have emerged as a simple pleasure. They're shiny, they bang, and they taste good.













Gus skipped his introductory lesson on chord progressions and went straight to his Hendrix impersonation. He's quite the little Voodoo Chile.

Recess

President Bush was at an elementary school talking to the schoolchildren and decided to take some questions from the class. Little Johnny raised his hand.

"Mr. President, I have two questions. First, why did you invade Iraq when there were no weapons of mass destruction and didn't have UN support? And second, how come you are President when Al Gore got more votes than you did in 2000?"

At that moment the recess bell rang & Bush responded, "Ok class, we will finish the questions after recess."

The kids went outside and played, then returned to the class for more time with President Bush.

Little Bobby raised his hand. "Mr. President, I have four questions. First, why did you invade Iraq when there were no weapons of mass destruction and didn't have UN support? Second, how come you are President when Al Gore got more votes than you did in 2000? Third, why did our recess bell ring 30 minutes early today. And fourth, where's Johnny?"